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What is the difference between affection and attraction?
Which one would you rather have women feeling for you?
Attraction is the path that leads to sex. Affection is the path or
reality of caring and niceness but lack of sexual interest.
When a woman feels affection for you, you're probably too much of a
nice guy. She may think of you as 'just a friend' or maybe even a
potential husband who has 'provider' stamped all over his forehead.
Maybe you'd be someone she can end up bossing around if you remain
complacent. Affection is something you feel for a puppy dog.
Attraction is something entirely different. When a woman feels the
powerful emotions of attraction and attributes it to you, all kinds
of interesting things are going to happen.
Being seen as a 'lover' is different than the social archetype of
being a provider.
whether you are emotional and understand women or not, you can still
get to sex because of the attraction and emotion SHE is going
through.
If a woman feels affection for you, things will rarely lead to sex.
When she loses attraction in a long-term relationship, there will
usually be less sex.
Women who are out of touch with their own natural character will not
have sex that often. women who are in touch with their natural
character and emotion will have the ability to create more
relationships with men instead of closing them off from the
beginning.
It does take more to open a new relationship with a 'Prada' or
independent woman than it does with a natural woman. Why? Because of
her logical and conscious development and mind, she is blocking her
natural intuitive abilities to respond to men and open her own path
to relationships.
She is less likely to feel attraction because she usually saves it
for her own private fantasy world. She differentiates it from the
harsh, cold corporate climage that she lives in daily.
These women are more likely to feel affection for men instead of
attraction because of the amount of habitual time they use their
brain logically as well as the personal power that they have.
They are used to controlling relationships and not coming in second
place so they tend to take relational authority over most of their
men quite often. It's just their tendency.
If they're around a really strong man, they can feel attraction but
it will often be fleeting once the heat of the moment is over.
Prickteases can feel massive attraction once a man can (instantly)
break through her military-grade social front. Once he can see that
she's not a sex object or a slut, she's more in touch with her
emotions than the independent women usually are.
She can feel attraction and response to a man but if he's not an
Alpha male, he'd better be able to see through her social powers in
order to reach her natural attraction instead of her gold-digging
(social) response.
Affection is puppy love. Attraction is mad love and physicality.
You can determine how women view you because you are the one who
chooses what type of relationship you're going to have with women.
If you want to represent the provider type and having women feel
affection for you ('awww') then just listen to what mainstream
dating teachers say. Buy her gifts and trade your money for her
time.
If you want to turn her on and lead towards sex, then portray
attributes of the lover. Keep money out of it, focus on raising her
F.A.R.M. (female attraction response model) and remain the
relational authority between the two of you.
Remember, women are the response to YOU as the stimulus. Choose your
path and communicate those things that you want to communicate.
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