Most people will just take what they see in front of them (and what they are programmed to see) at face value.

Most people are ignorant to the dynamics BEHIND reality because they're habituated to being the conditioned response of the programming.

They have the 'illusion' of choice but the true type of relationship they have is one of conditional programming. The producer's are the ones with the real power in that relationship.

You look at a production, commercial or 'program' and you see what you see. Few can actually (think independently and) differentiate the independent elements within, where they came from or most importantly the overall intent (and power) of the messenger.

You're not aware of the type of true relationship you have with it nor are you aware of how much it is actually influencing you over the long term.

so when it comes dating and success with amazingly beautiful women, guys want the end result but they don't understand the meaning and truth behind the behavior of these women in the first place.

They see these women acting aloof and out of this universe just like their t.v., magazine and film role models.

After a certain amount of time that consciousness starts to transfer over into the subconscious. You may not think that one 'commercial' has any impact on you but it does based on the type of true relationship you have with it.

You may think that looking at a gorgeous swimsuit model on the cover of a magazine doesn't affect your success with women yet it's the main reason (at the root) why you aren't successful.

Now, add up over the years millions of men being watchers of television, cover girl enthuasiasts and unlimited commercial 'programming' recipients.

What eventually happens? All of this conscious thought becomes habituated PLUS they're adding emotion to it.

The architect's KNOW how to make it emotional to trap people even more. Why do you think sexploitation is so profitable? Why do you think t.v. execs create the most drama right before a 'commercial' break so that you just HAVE to keep watching.

They create a co-dependent relationship to their advantage. They've got you 'hooked'. They've already influenced your behavior. ; If you were truly independent and powerful you wouldn't even be WATCHING t.v. but rarely because you know of it's behavioral influence.

If you want power and control back that you never thought you had, then examine things. 'What type of relationship do you really have to all these sources of influence'?

So many millions of people are being influenced without their knowledge.

The type of relationship they have with the 'architects' moves into their nonverbal subconsciousness after years of 'programming'.

They're not aware of how or how much they're being influenced nor how much they have already been influenced to this point. It affects their daily life, thoughts and behavior because the subconscious has taken over.

Being a byproduct of commercialism is nothing to be proud of. People of power are not co-dependent or in a conditional response relationship to this programming. They're either the programmers themselves or they're independent and free from it.

Yes you can use t.v. to your advantage but there is always a true type of relationship. I recommend you choose 3 programs TOPS that you would like to watch (there is no 'need' because need connotes dependency and powerlessness) and then use TiVo or completely skip the commercials or turn the volume down.

Then you'll be more of the one who has true relational authority. Remember that powerful people only operate out of interdependencies or win/win 'equal exchange' of value or information.

If you're being programmed to your previous ignorance, it's time to take cognition and get into a powerful relationship so that you are the one in control instead of soaking other people's power in like a sponge.

I encourage you to look 'behind the scenes' at the intent and motives behind what is really going on. This will be much easier from a viewpoint of being committed to only win/win relationships of value.

You'll be able to cut a lot of crap out of your life once you see what has been really going on. If you're really advanced you'll be able to see how certain programming has influenced and affected your own behavior (such as putting sex on a pedestal or glorifying the social status of anyone you would ever meet who has been 'on tv').

See things for what they really are and you will have much more cognition and power.