Why do men have so many issues and problems when approaching women?

Is it really their 'inner game' or don't they have enough belief in 'themselves'?..

By now you should know that I'm different from most of the other dating experts out there.

The other experts will tell you there's something wrong with the man, or you should keep trying to succeed at anything, but I always knew something wasn't right about the 'numbers game'
and 'keep approaching' or building up immunity to rejection (while it damages you further psychologically).

After all, how could I be a great catch but it was so hard to start new relationships with American women?

I knew that I wasn't the problem because in relationships the women loved it and enjoyed it, they were attracted and I was what they say they wanted in a man.

Women wouldn't respond, they would be dismissive and so aloof.

Other ones would just act like they were out of league of all men. None of it made sense and it frustrated me to no end.

I transmuted most of that (negative) sexual energy into improving myself even more and becoming an even better man but that didn't really help until I somehow got into relationships too.

Yet everytime I left the states, women were giving me nonverbal signals all the time, something I rarely saw in the states for the best part of a decade.

I didn't get it, but I wasn't alone. Approaching them and risking rejection just didn't make sense to me, it didn't seem right like a quality man should have to do all kinds of unnatural work like he's performing for her to have her damage his ego.

A man of my character shouldn't have to do any of that.

Fortunately I was right; we don't have to. But it took me a long time to clearly see the truth and how to apply it for consistent results.

It's kind of like cold-calling or door-to-door sales..it's not natural, it's an intrusion and then your success depends on your skill or ability to get them interested 'fast' in you.

I was an insurance agent part-time and I couldn't stand cold-calling. It didn't feel right to me. Fortunately I'm in businesses where people who are interested in the value I have, now come to me.

Success with women is natural; it's always been and it's why we're all here today. We're just dealing with unnatural variables or behavioral elements now that have come into the mix that
leave us with new byproducts.

We now have 100 million singles in the U.S. and 40 year old virgins as well as a declining birth-rate and fewer marriages. Men don't know where they stand in relation to women, women are taking over many family's as head of the household with less focus on the family.

The dynamics have changed. It was those dynamics that confused me as well as millions of other men.

To just tell a man to 'keep approaching' while being ignorant to these new relational dynamics and what it means is not only ineffective and psychologically damaging to men, but it's just not the answer (for men of character at least).

Those men and their teacher's don't understand the natural relational dynamic. They're operating within the screwed-up behavioral reality that they see in front of them, meanwhile
the hidden truth of a woman lies dormant waiting for the few men who know of it's existence.

When you understand the relational dynamics involved, female behaviorism and your relationship to everything that's going on, you will cognizant instead of ignorant like I used to be.

Then you will be able to have women chasing you, interested in you, never getting rejected, and connecting with women while massively improving your dating lifestyle.

It's just up to you to know. STOP chasing women or trying to get 'the prize'. Understand the truth of what's going on and your relationship to it and ground yourself in a woman's true
sexuality and you won't have to ignorantly approach women anymore only to get rejected again.