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Self-awareness and Body Language in Approaching
Women

-by Rion Williams
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So many men are 'acting' like they're men when they don't have any
other way to control their nervousness around women.
At least those men are doing something compared to other men.
But it usually just turns the women off because they can tell where
he's coming from. He is a man but something just isn't
congruent. Look..
Being conscious of your own body language and going through the
movements of a natural is only acting. Up until now there
just weren't any other effective methods to physiological change.
If you look at nonverbal body language and the intuition of women,
you should realize that you just can't fake it.
Sure you could 'act' for a little while but eventually the camera's
going to be turned off and you won't be in 'character'
anymore.
You're going to get caught or 'slip up' around her.
Some men become pick-up artists or 'seducers' who chase women even
though they pretend not to be chasing them.
Since they are still afraid of women and taking the wrong relational
dynamic for success they have to act.
They put on a front or 'character' of acting. Eventually they start
to believe their own B.S. and become someone that they
weren't to begin with.
All of this is unnatural and takes a lot of time and effort to
change their subconscious beliefs. So what happens is they
become someone who is even more unnatural yet succeeds with women a
little more often because he inadvertently had something going for
him (sex) and gained higher natural character anyways but he took
the long route.
Few pick up artists achieve that congruency or level anyways.
You have to approach at least 1000 women by taking that entire
relational dynamic.
During this whole time whether they admit it or not, they believe
that women are above them and the 'prize' to catch.
Even the ones who say she isn't prize and almost believe it
logically, it doesn't matter. Why?
Because their nonverbal body language and their entire approach to
seduction is grounded in the fact that she is the prize nonverbally.
He could logically say to 'approach' women and I'm the catch but his
body won't believe it. He's been conditioned too strong
already to believe that she is really the prize.
Why? Well, should I start naming body parts? How about the scores of
men she could theoretically sleep with? How about the
emotional fantasies he's had about women with her same
ass-ets and attributes?
His mind has so many neural connections in the reality that she is
'above him'. that's why men fail, they're in the wrong
relational dynamic.
They're viewing women in the inner and social relational dynamic and
that's why they struggle. Women have the power there.
It's not that they don't have power naturally; they have a different
kind of power naturally. They have the power to experience unheard
of emotion, bliss and physiological response.
Millions of men aren't aware of this true sexuality and thus they
are thrown off by the behavior of women. They're conditioned to the
wrong stimulus of women.
They have alpha role models of inner and social behavior or
'sexuality' but they're not accurate. They're great models of
socio-cultural adaptation but they're not a woman's true sexuality.
At the root of why most pick-up artists fail consistently is that
they're in the wrong relational dynamic. They have a
social alpha woman (a 'sexy' blonde men's magazine cover
girl and others like her) as their model of sexuality.
That is why they fail. They've been conditioned daily (and it still
continues even more) to believe that a woman's
showcasing of her body is really her sexuality.
They believed the lie because it's all they see in their reality.
This sexploitation and the behavioral conditioning
involved, influenced their behavior massively.
They can think it through logically but there is too much emotional
attribution correlated with desiring her body (as a
response to the stimulus). Anything he says or does coming from the
subconscious belief and fact of this will still be
obvious to the woman where he is coming from.
And if you're the cover model social alpha woman and another 'chode'
is 'approaching' you to 'get some' you're going to be
ready to turn him down because it's obvious what he wants.
If you're ready for modern behavioral enlightenment as well as a way
to have rock-solid success in attracting and
communicating with power and beauty, find out more at my websites.
You can try 'body language' techniques but the logic in them and
'acting' ilke you're the man doesn't work.
You have to have something that is REAL and put enough emotional
attribution into it to change your nonverbal or subconscious
behavior. Inner game is not enough.
You can't 'act' comfortable around women, you have to BE comfortable
around women. My full training is priceless and I lead by example.
It's time for cognition and power; a different approach.
A clear way to attract, succeed and operate as a natural even around
the most powerful and unnatural women. It's up to you.
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