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Many dating experts will balk at the idea and say that if being
yourself hasn't worked, then try something different.
Basically 'act' and be or become someone you're not is what it boils
down to.
And if you 'act' enough, you'll eventually become congruent with the
act enough to get women into bed 'a certain percentage'
of the time.
Unfortunately, when guys who aren't having success with women end up
trying to be someone they're not, things only get even more
frustrating.
It's even more unfamiliar territory and they're nervous around women
as is.
Yet a few things they try such as techniques or lines to knock her
'off her pedestal' a little bit seem to work and they'll get further
into developing a persona that was never really them
to begin with.
Sure lots of guys have had success with this by essentially
'becoming' the character after a lot of trial and error, yet few
have the commitment to something that unnatural yet they
see it as their only option.
There's a LOT of material out there that deals in this realm.
It's time for some real answers and solutions that deal with the
core issues themselves.
It's time for men to actually be their true, comfortable and
powerful self around women instead of becoming someone they're
not based out of ignorance to the relational reality in the first
place.
I can understand the desire of men to succeed in this area, but I
encourage them to look at other solutions and decide for
themselves.
Do they really want to become someone they're not, playing the
social power game where even the top PUA's are starting out
from a powerless frame in relation to women, or do they want to
truly be comfortable in their own skin and easily communicate
with the most beautiful women on earth while respecting the woman
and getting a lot further?
Fortunately now there IS an option for those that are looking.
I call it Alpha Relational Dynamics. It deals with more than just a
man's inner game or his fight to align himself and fix himself to
the reality he is ignorant to in the first place.
It's the first program I know that explains women and their
behavior. To be effective we can't just improve a man and be
ignorant to the truth of women, we have to understand female
behavior at it's roots and know our relationship to it and what
it means to us.
For men that are looking to be themselves around women and are tired
of acting, it's time for a solution that will allow him
to keep his power and be massively attractive to women instead of
trying to entertain the woman who is higher up the social
scale.
It's time for men to be powerful as themselves around beauty itself.
It's time to respect himself and to actually BE
himself, then women will know he's for real and can trust him to
open up to a new relationship.
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